Monday, August 11, 2008

Emergency Room

Today was not a good day. Both of my ears have been throbbing since last Thursday. I did some research online and realized that I had swimmers ear. It only made sense because I had been swimming so much. I tried some home remedies and bought some ear drops from Wal-Mart to see if it would feel better. To make a long story short, it didn't work. On Saturday, we had a farewell bar-b-que at my in-laws house and TJ's aunty did a samoan massage to make it feel better. It felt good while she was massaging my ear but as soon as she was finished, the pain came right back. I tried so hard to avoid going to the emergency room because I knew that it would be hectic. Thank god my husband was with me because I would have gone insane if I was in that room by myself. As we walked into the emergency room, I kid you not.... that damn place looked like little Tijuana. There were so many people cramped into such a small room with little kids of all ages crying in every freakin corner. I got irritated before I even got to the check-in desk. I swear if my ear wasn't hurting so much I would have just gone home. It took us two hours to be seen for ten minutes, and another two hour wait just for my prescription. I hated being there so much and was exhausted when it was all over. I've learned to never wait too long to go to the hospital especially if it has to do with your ears. I waited so long and my ears were so swollen that a gentle touch hurts it. TJ says that I should stop depending on Samoan massages because they don't always work. I've learned my lesson and can't wait for my pain killers to start rubbing in so that I can go to sleep. Earaches are so painful. I've gained a whole new respect for kids who live through an earache. I would give anything to be able to hear out of my right ear right now. The doctors say that the steroids and codeine should help with the swelling and pain and everything should be back in place in about two days. I'm so tempted to just remain highly medicated for the next 2 days so don't be surprised if you don't hear from me...lol... I've been so traumatized by this earache and vowed to go to the doctors at the first sight of an infection.....

Monday, August 4, 2008

2 Years....

I find it hard to believe sometimes that TJ and I have been married for two years because it feels like we've been together for much longer than that. Our anniversary is tomorrow, August 5th, and we are pretty excited. We don't really have anything planned but I'm okay with that. TJ planned a young mens activity at our house for our anniversary. My first impression was to cuss him out when he first told me about the activity but after a few minutes of personal meditation...lol... I accepted the fact that this was going to happen. I didn't want to argue with him so I kind of just went along with it. My husband and I have been through a lot and I have learned that materialistic things are not that important. TJ & I spent the entire day together and I couldn't ask for anything more. With our hectic schedules, quality time together isn't something that we can't always take advantage of. So, to have the entire day to ourselves was more than enough for me. We had breakfast, went for a swim, and watched movies, etc.... I love my husband and although we still go through our moments with each other, I know that no one else would be able to handle my larger than life independent attitude like TJ Salanoa. He is my Captain Moroni and I couldn't ask for a better husband.

♥Dora Salanoa